Sunday, 29 January 2012

29th January message of the day

Self Transformation (Change)

We nourish the soul by going into the depths of silence and learning to love and appreciate the self. Giving time to do this will bring about a change in how we go about doing things, and this will start to show itself in improved relationships and in quality of life. By adopting a systematic and practical approach, we can assist the changes we wish to bring about in our life, otherwise old patterns of behaviour and the influences of the world will weaken our determination and efforts, like the sea tide washing away a sandcastle.

Here are some practical reminders and steps we can take to grow spiritually and bring out transformation (change) in ourselves:

Create a space for silence
Creating a space for inner silence is important and we can also create a corner area or a room used only for this purpose. In that place there is the opportunity, for instance, each morning to prepare for the coming day and, in the evening, to unburden the mind of any wasteful thoughts and feelings that have accumulated during the day.

(To be continued tomorrow..)

------------------------------
----------------------------
Message for the day 29-01-2012
----------------------------------------------------------

Bring about true change with a firm promise to yourself to change.

Expression: When you find that there is a need for you to change some aspect in yourself, check how strong your thought is. Check if your words are 'I'll try to change or is it I promise to myself I will change.'

Experience: Take any aspect that you would like to change in yourself and take a firm promise to really bring about the desired change. Also remind yourself of your promise each day so that it is further strengthened.

Tuesday, 24 January 2012

Message for 26 January 2012

Today's Topic


Message of 25 January 2012

                                                               Today's   Topic

                                                                  Anger Management                                              


How to manage your anger?

Keep a daily chart for one week for the questions below, the answers to which will help you manage emotions of anger, irritation, frustration, etc. more effectively. Review your progress at the end of each day and then at the end of one week. Having made your observations, make improvements for the next week. Keeping this chart for a month, will help you manage and overcome your anger much better.
1. During which event today did you get angry or irritated...even a little?

2. What was the type of your thoughts at that time?

3. Which negative thought/thoughts contributed to your stress the most?

4. What positive thoughts helped you to regain your calmness and composure?

5. How long did it take to regain your calmness?

6. Why did it take so long to regain your peace?

7. What would you do differently and more appropriately if the same scene happened tomorrow? 


To think of the solution is to have the ability to change the situation.

Expression: When there is a situation, which is difficult to deal with, the mind is usually caught up with it. But just thinking about it would not create a solution. When thinking is focused solely on finding a solution, then there is the ability to find the available resources and use them to change the situation.

Experience: When I am constantly looking for answers, I find the richness that is lying within. I appreciate and use both internal and external resources. I am free from complaints about problems, and I never give excuses for whatever is happening. I only appreciate what is there to bring about a positive change. 

Just share your feelings........